If you are concerned about your parents or elderly relatives, there is likely a valid reason for your concern. These early warning signs should alert you to possible problems, and identifying a problem is the first step to solving it.

FREQUENT PHONE CALLS:

• From your relative who doesn't remember calling about the same thing

• From concerned friends or neighbors

PHYSICAL OBSERVATIONS:

• is physically fragile or unsteady on feet

• Has fallen more than once, with or without injury

• Has lost or gained a significant amount of weight

• Doesn't take medications as prescribed

• Looks or complains of always feeling fatigued

• Has dirty clothes, hair or bedding

• Has accumulated paper, garbage or other items in home

• Has body odors or odors in home

• Has difficulty seeing or hearing well enough to communicate

• Has unexplained injuries or bruises

• Has bills or other paperwork accumulating around house

• Has many beer cans or liquor bottles in garbage

• Home has not been adequately maintained

 PSYCHOSOCIAL OBSERVATIONS:

• Is confused or forgetful

• Is anxious or depressed

• Is unable to clearly explain things or describe needs

• Has had a change in mood or personality

• Is increasingly isolated and refuses to go out

• Refuses to go to the doctor or dentist

• Is newly suspicious of previously trusted relatives

• Has experienced deterioration of relationships with others

 SUPPORT SYSTEMS:

• Has recently experienced the death of a spouse, child, partner or pet

• Has recently lost the right or ability to drive

• Significant others have moved away

• Is not involved with friends, neighbors or community